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April 2003
"I have one child that continues to make silly noises for attention and even though he has missed recess several times, it doesn't seem to matter. I've talked to the mother and she has no solutions. Any ideas?"
Gina from Nanuet, NY
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April 2004
"I have 25 first graders who can never stop talking while I am reading, explaining directions, etc. I have tried many things such as rewards for good listening behavior. Nothing seems to be working. Any ideas?"
Andrea from Acton, Massachusetts
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April 2005
" I was recently raked over the coals by a parent for the amount of homework that I give my first graders. She says that it is 45 minutes to an hour a night. If they do everything, I don't see that it could possibly be more than 30 minutes - tops! This is
Christi from Forney, Texas
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August 2004
"I am a first year teacher and would like some Fall ideas and projects that I can get the children's parents involved with. Does anyone have some suggestions of projects that parents can come to school and work with their child. Any ideas would be greatly
Jess in Somerville, Ma
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December 2002
"I teach a combination 4th/5th grade class. Can you offer some good management tips to help me teach to one group while keeping the other group engaged in their work? "
J. Scott from CA
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December 2003
"Does anyone have any positive suggestions for getting their children to walk as a group in the hallways without talking, carrying on, or disturbing others?"
C.T. in Harrisburg, Pa
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December 2003
"Does anyone have any positive suggestions for getting their children to walk as a group in the hallways without talking, carrying on, or disturbing others?"
C.T. in Harrisburg, Pa
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December 2004
"Do any of you teachers out there have any suggestions about how to help children that have difficulty completing independent work?"
Vicky from Santa Cruz, California
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Feburary 2003
" I am interested in starting a lunchbag bookclub with students and need ideas on how to proceed. Does anyone have any ideas?"
Mrs. Jaw
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Feburary 2004
"Does anyone have any original and educational field trip ideas for students in grades 3-6?"
Dana from Roscoe, Illinois
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February 2005
"I know it is wonderful to have parents come in to the classroom to spend time with their child or come in to help the class with projects, but sometimes I have a problem with the children of those parents. Many times the child will either misbehave and t
Susan from Pittsford, MI
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January 2003
"I'm looking for some fresh ways to count up the first 100 days of school. I already use calculator tape posted around the edge of the room to track the days, but I want to try something different Any ideas?"
Donna K
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March 2004
"I am looking for ways to make my Jehoviah Witness children feel included in all of our activities in our room. When we do a holiday activity, I need to exclude them from it. I feel bad about this but feel it would not be fair to the other children if we
Lisa from Salem Oregon
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March 2005
" How do you adjust your math and reading activities for your gifted children? I've tried adding problems, asking challenging questions, but need some more ideas to keep them motivated. "
Gina from Nanuet, NY
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May 2003
"I am a pre-school teacher. In my class when its free play time some children always play guns. I want to know what is appropriate: to stop them or just to let them go? Any suggestions?"
Fauzia Aslam
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May 2004
"Does anyone have any great book buddy activities for Kindergarten and/or First Grade and fourth or Fifth Grade reading"
Nicole from Whitestone, New York
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November 2003
"I have a student this year who has little to no social skills. His desk has been moved many times already this year in an effort to find a workable combination. (Lots of desks move so he is not isolated). I have observed his behavior and the reactions of
Elaine from Clintondale, New York
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November 2004
"I have big windows in my classroom and would love some creative ideas as to how to decorate them?"
Susie from Chicago, Illinois
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October 2003
"I am a 1st grade teacher and I am in search of a new discipline plan for this year. I have done colors and money in the past. Just want something new. Any ideas?"
Denise from Ladson, South Carolina
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October 2003
"Does anyone have good OPEN HOUSE IDEAS centered around literature? (i.e. Dr. Seuss was done one year.) This would have to include lots of art too as I teach Kindergarten.
Linda from Modesto, California
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October 2003
"Does anyone have good OPEN HOUSE IDEAS centered around literature? (i.e. Dr. Seuss was done one year.) This would have to include lots of art too as I teach Kindergarten. Thanks."
Linda from Modesto, California
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October 2004
"When my children come from noon recess they have many tales to tell me of injustices on the playground. I think it is important to listen to these stories because I do not wish ot allow bullies to get away with bullies harrassing other children. This tak
Connie from Broken Arrow, Oklahoma
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September 2003
"I am a regular education teacher and will be teaching a 4th grade integrated class next year. I need suggestions for how to make this a positive experience for all of my students."
Keri from Moriches, NY
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September 2003
:"I am a regular education teacher and will be teaching a 4th grade integrated class next year. I need suggestions for how to make this a positive experience for all of my students."
Keri from Moriches, NY
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September 2004
"I'm looking for some new ideas for discipline/classroom management. Please share if you can."
Janet from Whittier, North Carolina
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January 2004
"I have 25 second graders. Their behavior at lunch is terrible. They talk too loud and touch each other's food. HELP!"
Kathy from Green Island, New York
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January 2005
"What do you do when your class disrespects a substitute or special class teacher? "
Tinna, from Kansas City, MO
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May 2005
" I teach an all day every day Kindergarten program. We have a 30 minute rest time daily after our lunch. We have found that many children, especially at the beginning of the school year need this time and often sleep. Others probably could do without it.
Sue who teaches Kindergarten in North Adams, Michigan
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June 2005

" I will be teaching a combined kindergarten/first grade class next year. Does anyone have any good ideas on how to keep wiggly kindergarteners quiet and focused on hands-on activities that they can do independently while I am teaching the fir
This month’s question comes from Jean, who teaches in Lyndonville, Vermont:
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July 2005

I love setting my room up with books categorized in different genres. I have the book color coded by genre, however I have two problems.

First, what do you do with the books that the students haven't finished, however don't have time to complet
This month's question comes from Christa
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July 2005

I love setting my room up with books categorized in different genres. I have the book color coded by genre, however I have two problems.

First, what do you do with the books that the students haven't finished, however don't have time to complet
This month's question comes from Christa who teaches 1st Grade in Oak Brook, IL
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August 2005
I would like to know what are some good ways to keep track of students' assignments and make them accountable for missing and unfinished work. This has always been a challenge for me. I have been teaching almost 10 years and every year it gets ver
This month's question comes from Charlotte who teaches in Indianapolis, Indiana
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August 2005
I would like to know what are some good ways to keep track of students' assignments and make them accountable for missing and unfinished work. This has always been a challenge for me. I have been teaching almost 10 years and every year it gets very frustr
This month's question comes from Charlotte who teaches in Indianapolis, Indiana
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September 2005
Does anyone know of an effective way to get parents to come to conferences (elementary level). Last session, I had one parent (yes, just one!) show up. Help!
This month's question comes from Terah who teaches in Hosford, Florida
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October 2005
Does anyone have any ideas on a QUICK (5 minutes) way to practice sight vocab every day? I keep 10 words on my board all week long and we do practice them daily. However, I only have a few different strategies for practicing them. and I don't want my
The October 2005 question was submitted by Kathy who teaches 1st grade in Harrisburg, PA
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November 2005
I teach an all day Kindergarten Program and just like every grade the curriculum is getting more and more difficult and lengthy. Unfortunately, Kindergarten children are still little people with lots of energy!!!!!-They need activity and lots of it. We
This months's question was submitted by Susan who teaches in Jonesville, Michigan
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December 2005
I teach kindergarten and due to new school requirements, I need to incorporate vocabulary instruction into my already "packed" day. Does anyone have any quick, effective ways to teach vocabulary words to younger students?
This month’s question concerns Vocabulary Instruction and comes from Lichelle, who teaches Kindergarten in Milwaukee, WI
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December 2005
I teach kindergarten and due to new school requirements, I need to incorporate vocabulary instruction into my already packed day. Does anyone have any quick, effective ways to teach vocabulary words to younger students?
This month’s question concerns Vocabulary Instruction and comes from Lichelle, who teaches Kindergarten in Milwaukee, WI
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January 2006
I've come to hate the hassle of the last 1/2 hour of school. Please give me tips to make this "tired time" a bit easier on me AND the students.
This month’s question was sent in by Kari, who teaches in Toronto, Ohio:
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January 2006
I've come to hate the hassle of the last 1/2 hour of school. Please give me tips to make this "tired time" a bit easier on me AND the students.
This month’s question was sent in by Kari, who teaches in Toronto, Ohio:
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February 2006
Does anybody have activities/ strategies/games to teach 2nd graders about cause and effect relationships? Many thanks!
This month’s question was sent in by Marlene Arduino, who teaches in Las Vegas, Nevada:
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March 2006
1) How do you get a completely talkative group to stop talking all day long?

2) What do you do or how do you say things to make them hear a direction the first time and not have to repeat it 5 more times?
This month we have two good questions from one teacher, Keleen, who teaches in Milwuakee, Wisconsin:
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April 2006
I am looking for suggestions to help my students write fiction. They don't seem to understand the idea of writing a story.
This month's question comes from Cindy, who teaches 2nd Grade in Richmond, Virginia:
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May 2006
I am a 3rd Grade Math teacher and am looking for creative ideas to help my students master their basic facts. If anyone has any creative ideas, I would greatly appreciate them.
This month's question comes from Susie, who teaches 3rd Grade in Erie, Pennsylvania:
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June 2006
I teach 1st grade. Next school year I am planning on having four 15-minute guided reading groups. I need ideas of what the other students can do for the 45-minutes that they are not in reading groups. It has to be an independent activity.
This month's question comes from Sherry, who teaches 1st Grade in Clinton, Ohio:
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June 2006
I teach 1st grade. Next school year I am planning on having four 15-minute guided reading groups. I need ideas of what the other students can do for the 45-minutes that they are not in reading groups. It has to be an independent activity.
This month's question comes from Susie, who teaches 3rd Grade in Erie, Pennsylvania:
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July 2006
Does anyone have great ideas for a school newspaper? I am in charge starting this August, and would like to put out a paper that is different from the old one. I would like each issue to be fun, interesting to kids and parents.
This month's question comes from Tom, who teaches in Ontario, California:
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August 2006
I have a job for every student in my class, and the jobs change each week. Some of the jobs happen in the morning, some at the end, and some all day long. Most of the jobs are important for my sanity. Last year, my students were not very good at getting
This month's question comes from Elisa , who teaches in Blackfoot, Idaho:
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August 2006
I have a job for every student in my class, and the jobs change each week. Some of the jobs happen in the morning, some at the end, and some all day long. Most of the jobs are important for my sanity. Last year, my students were not very good at getting t
This month's question comes from Elisa , who teaches in Blackfoot, Idaho:
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September 2006
"Would you share some ways that you keep the pack up end of the day chaos from being so loud and chaotic?"
This months question comes from Vicki, who teaches in Pottstown, PA:
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September 2006
Would you share some ways that you keep the pack up end of the day chaos from being so loud and chaotic?
This months question comes from Vicki, who teaches in Pottstown, PA:
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October 2006
I'll be in a double classroom next year with two other teachers, one general ed and one special ed. Any ideas on how we can work together smoothly to present one face to the students?
This months question comes from Kathy, who teaches in Rochester, NY:
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November 2006
My school is looking for creative ways to reduce lunchroom noise/talking. Any suggestions?
This month's question comes from Kelly, who teaches in Ashville, NC:
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December 2006
I teach a 3/4 combination and I'd love to hear about some different classroom management systems that have been successful.
This month's question comes from Rita Goedl, who teaches in Chico, CA:
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January 2007
I teach Science for the whole third grade at my school and I find when they come into the Science Lab, it takes much too long for them to transition and get ready to start the lesson. Any suggestions for what I could have ready for them the minute they w
This month's question comes from Sally, who teaches in Portsmouth, VA:
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January 2007
I teach Science for the whole third grade at my school and I find when they come into the Science Lab, it takes much too long for them to transition and get ready to start the lesson. Any suggestions for what I could have ready for them the minute they wa
This month's question comes from Sally, who teaches in Portsmouth, VA:
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February 2007
I have a T.A. helping me this year. One of my responsibilities is to know what she is doing at all times. I do not feel comfortable in this position. I need ideas on how to work with her without making her feel inadequate.
This month's question comes from Debra , who teaches in Waynesboro, GA:
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March 2007
One of our state standards for second graders involves being self-reliant. I have a parent who does everything for her child, and doesn't want to "let go". She even comes to school at lunch time to blow his nose when he has a cold! Many people have gently
This month's question comes from Lyn Conley, who teaches in Kilmarnock, VA:
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March 2007
One of our state standards for second graders involves being self-reliant. I have a parent who does everything for her child, and doesn't want to 'let go'. She even comes to school at lunch time to blow his nose when he has a cold! Many people have gently
This month's question comes from Lyn Conley, who teaches in Kilmarnock, VA:
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April 2007
I have an underachieving, certified gifted student. I have tried individual contracts and frequent positive reinforcements. Any suggestions on how to motivate this student?
This month's question comes from Debbie, who teaches in Nashville, TN:
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May 2007
Hi, I am new to teaching and would like to know what are the best methods to quiet a chatty class. I've tried silent sign, whispering, standing still, give me five, positive reinforcement (ex: I like how Johnny is sitting quietly.) Any ideas would be grea
This month's question comes from Melissa, who teaches in Randolph, NJ:
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June 2007
How does your school or district handle parents who would like to have their students in a certain teacher's class? We would like to come up with a district policy for parental request which will help us in planning classes for the next school year.
This month's question comes from Kate, who teaches in Albion, MI:
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July 2007
Hi, I am a kindergarten teacher and would like to know any helpful hints on getting students to stay resting during rest time? My students tend to get up find little items on the floor and bring them to me. My classroom is a little smaller, so it is diffi
This month's question comes from Marsha, who teaches in Cresco, IA:
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August 2007
When we return to school in September, I will be having 5 students from my previous year ( first going into 2nd grade) and 5 new students (kindergarten going into 1st grade). Any suggestions on making the new comers feel special as well as making the soon
This month's question comes from Barbara, who teaches in Middletown, NJ:
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September 2007
How does your school handle the class bully who threatens the other students constantly, but whose parents think they can do no wrong?
This month's question comes from Joel, who teaches in Brooklyn, NY:
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October 2007
I have a kindergarten child that is very bright but is always poking, touching, and bothering other students. When I talk to him about it he seems to think it is funny. I need an effective way to help him keep his hands to himself!
This month's question comes from Becki, who teaches in Mansfield, PA:
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October 2007
I have a kindergarten child that is very bright but is always poking, touching, and bothering other students. When I talk to him about it he seems to think it is funny. I need an effective way to help him keep his hands to himself!
This month's question comes from Becki, who teaches in Mansfield, PA:
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November 2007
What is a good way to teach children (Kindergarten and First) to be quieter in the classroom?
This month's question comes from Karen, who teaches in Philadelphia, PA:
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November 2007
What is a good way to teach children (Kindergarten and First) to be quieter in the classroom?
This month's question comes from Karen, who teaches in Philadelphia, PA:
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December 2007
How do you help the chronically disorganized child?
This month's question comes from Amanda, who teaches in Houston, TX:
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December 2007
How do you help the chronically disorganized child?
This month's question comes from Amanda, who teaches in Houston, TX:
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January 2008
I teach a reading group in the Success For All literacy program. Any ideas on how to make it more fun while still meeting all required parts in the 90 minute time period?
This month's question comes from Donna, who teaches in Lebanon, OH:
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January 2008
I teach a reading group in the Success For All literacy program. Any ideas on how to make it more fun while still meeting all required parts in the 90 minute time period?
This month's question comes from Donna, who teaches in Lebanon, OH:
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February 2008
I am looking for ideas for grandparents day. The class has to do a 15 minute program in the classroom for the parents and grandparents. Do you have suggestions that would make sense for pre-k and kindergarten.
This month's question comes from Norma, who teaches in Carencro, LA:
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March 2008
How do you get students to slow down and focus on work instead of rushing so they can do something else?
This month's question comes from Mary, who teaches in Lafayette, IN:
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April 2008
Calling all Kindergarten Teachers. My collegue and I are going to be teaching 'single gender' classes next year. We currently have 5 sections of all day/every day Kindergarten. Next year we will be offering 3 "traditional" and 1 all boy and 1 all girl cla
This month's question was sent in by Cherie, who teaches in Fennville, Michigan:
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April 2008
Calling all Kindergarten Teachers. My collegue and I are going to be teaching 'single gender' classes next year. We currently have 5 sections of all day/every day Kindergarten. Next year we will be offering 3 'traditional' and 1 all boy and 1 all girl cla
This month's question was sent in by Cherie, who teaches in Fennville, Michigan:
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May 2008
I would like ideas for first-day activities, crafts, etc. for my first & second grade students. I would appreciate any ideas, thanks!
This month's question was sent in by Donna, who teaches in Tulsa, OK:
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June 2008
Does anyone have any great activities for Kindergarten or first graders to do on the first day/week of school?
This month's question was sent in by Connie, who teaches in Ukiah, CA:
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June 2008
Does anyone have any great activities for Kindergarten or first graders to do on the first day/week of school?
This month's question was sent in by Connie, who teaches in Ukiah, CA:
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July 2008
Does anyone have a really good and simple discipline management system that's easy to implement with 1st graders, and more importantly, easy to stick with throughout the year?
This month's question was sent in by Cindy , who teaches in Cedar Park, TX:
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August 2008
I am looking for activities for the first few days of school for a very high energy group.
This month's question was sent in by Deb , who teaches in West Chicago, IL:
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September 2008
This year, for the first time, I will have a retained student in my class. Last year's teacher shared that he did little more than sit, disrupt the class, and sleep. I would love to have some ideas on how to start his year out on a positive note and sugge
This month's question was sent in by Denise , who teaches in Detroit, MI:
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October 2008
How can I best manage my guided reading groups or math centers so that I can concentrate and focus on the group I'm working with? I've modeled and practiced, but the students continue to talk loudly due to excitement, or they interrupt my group to ask que
This month's question was sent in by Amber , who teaches in Asheville, NC:
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November 2008
I find it hard to have centers in the classroom because some students are misbehaving and not doing what they are supposed to. I love having centers but can be very hard to manage. Are there any good management strategies to help me make sure that my stu
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November 2008
I find it hard to have centers in the classroom because some students are misbehaving and not doing what they are supposed to. I love having centers but can be very hard to manage. Are there any good management strategies to help me make sure that my stud
This month's question was sent in by Allison, who teaches in Elgin, IL:
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December 2008
How do you get low level readers to actually read during silent reading time? I've tried everything I can think of and they still won't read.
This month's question was sent in by Jackie, who teaches in South Bend, IN:
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January 2009
What are some creative ways to give positive attention to students who make noises and throw things for attention or to make others laugh?
This month's question was sent in by Gina, who teaches in Daphne, AL:
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February 2009
What activities can I do to help improve reading fluency in third grade. We have read several poems and done Reader's Theater, but I am looking for some new ideas!
This month's question was sent in by Terri, who teaches in Prophetstown, IL:
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March 2009
Do you have any great ideas for teaching first graders how to write poems and develop a liking for poetry?
This month's question was sent in by Michelle, who teaches in Columbia, SC:
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April 2009
Does anyone have any games, that do not require prep, that I can play with my students when I only have 5 or 10 minutes to spare? Something that would be fun for intermediate grades, I teach 6th.
This month's question was sent in by Terri, who teaches in Kent, WA:
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May 2009
How do you get primary students to slow down and take their time with their writing and classroom work?
This month's question was sent in by Karen, who teaches in Fort Wayne, IN:
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June 2009
For the first time in my teaching career I am having to teach a combo classroom. Any suggestions/advice on how to teach two grade levels at the same time?
This month's question was sent in by Nichole, who teaches in Chandler, AZ:
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July 2009
How can I make an aide feel like a part of the team?
This month's question was sent in by Sally, who teaches in Sequim, WA
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August 2009
After many years of teaching, I still have trouble with "dismissal time", which can be as long as 20 mins. in my school. Any ideas on keeping kids quiet while waiting for their buses to be called?
This month's question was sent in by Nancy, who teaches in Portsmouth, RI
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August 2009
After many years of teaching, I still have trouble with "dismissal time", which can be as long as 20 mins. in my school. Any ideas on keeping kids quiet while waiting for their buses to be called?
This month's question was sent in by Nancy, who teaches in Portsmouth, RI
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September 2009
After almost 10 years of teaching, I still struggle w/ finding 3-5 min. activities to use with upper elementary grade students during transition/wait time. Any suggestions?
This month's question was sent in by Vicki, who teaches in Barkhamsted, CT
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October 2009
How do you manage lunchroom behavior? I want to let them socialize but they go crazy! HELP?
This month's question was sent in by Kathy, who teaches in Charlotte, NC
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November 2009
I'm looking for whole-class strategies to keep ADHD kids on task during independent work times (like when I'm teaching reading groups). More than half the kids in my class display the inattentive, overactive behaviors of ADHD, so I need tips that I can us
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Q: This month's question comes from Becki, who teaches in Mansfield, PA:

I have a kindergarten child that is very bright but is always poking, touching, and bothering other students. When I talk to him about it he seems to think it is funny. I need an effective way to help him keep his hands to himself!



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Sylvia Atchison from Philadelphia, PA:
Hi there! I attended Mansfield State, graduated in '75 I still go back to visit my profs and friends.Try to catch him being good and say somerthing positive. Sent honme a catch being good ticket anouncing his good behavior. As he is leaving for the day say to him how happy you were to have him in your class today. In the morning greet the students and say how happy you are to see them. When you reach the student your're having problems with tell him how happy your are to see him and I know you are going to be a good role model today. Every other day reward him with a tangible good as he exits the class room. Then reward him every three day, then once a week to fade out the tangibloe goods. find out ehat he would like to do as a reward for free time, or give him a class responsibility. Soon just the very praioseshould be enough. Good luck!

Sally S Williams from Villa Rica, Ga:
I have the same problem. Some of the things that I do are when we sit at circle time, he has a carpet square that is further back or to the side of the group so that he cannot reach another child, but is still close enough in to take part. I have told him that he has to earn his way back into the circle. He has to make a choice as to when he comes back. He has tried it several times, and now, sometimes he sits at his "spot", and sometimes he joins us at the circle. When we walk down the hall, he walks beside my para-pro or me. I also got some "Caught Being Good" coins that are awarded at random. When the children get 5 coins, they trade them in for a prize from the prize box. The "touchy feely" child loves this, and I try to "catch" him sitting or working or walking without touching or bothering others. I can't say it's stopped completely, but these things have helped tremendously. I also informed the parents of what I would be doing before I did it.

angie from hattiesburg, ms:
How do I help a child who wants attention from his mother? He throw tantrums daily during instructional time. Sometimes my assistant or I can calm him, but most of the time hours of instruction are wasted before we gain control of him. He just wants his mom's attention. He told a counselor he doesn't feel like he has a mom. She pretends to be so interested and blames us because "he doesn't act like that at home." She wants us to contact her when he is acting this way and when we do she has a block on her phone saying she isn't accepting calls. I have tried every way to get her to realize that he wants her attention in whatever way he can get it. She says she doesn't know what else to do. She really doesn't want to be bothered. He needs help, but I have exhausted all outside resources. I have a chair for him to sit in when he is so upset, but we can't get him to comply most of the time. What can I do to meet his needs and teach at the same time?

Sandra from Griffin, Georgia:
Discuss with the student that you have noticed him exhibiting this behavior. Then let him know that everytime he does it, you will take a marble \ Dicuss with the student that you have noticed the behavior and it is not appropriate. Then, let him know that every time you see the behavior, you will take a marble out of one pocket and , with a big sweeping motion, put that marble in your other pocket. Only he should know what this means. Close to the end of the day, show him how many marbles you collected in your other pocket and that tomorrow you want it to be less. I heard this from another teacher this week and she has stated that it was very effective for the student.

Annonymous from Livonia, Michigan:
Perhaps the child he bothers can tell him how he feels when that happens, Using his words, he can say I don't like it when you poke, touch and bother, depending what it is.

Kathy Beasley from Lansing, Michigan:
First get the child's parent(s) involved. Second tell the child that he must always be in contontrol of his body. If he can't do this he will have to be grounded. Explain that being grounded means that he may not move around the classroom, school, or playground without you holding his hand. After a day of this, with you being so sorry he can't do his job, or go on a specail errand etc. I find most children get control. It may take extra effort on your part, but there is a big payoff when things go more smoothly in your classroom.

Pat Riethmeier from Norlina, NC:
Why not let him have a stuffed animal or such to keep track of. This way his hands are busy with the stuffed animal.

Kathy from Northbrook, IL:
It seems for this student negative attention is better than no attention at all. I had a similar situation, sat down and talked with the student about positive ways he could get my and others attention. Then I made a real effort of calling attention to the positive ways he behaved. "Name, I like how you sat down and got to work right away." "Name, you were the first one to quiet down after coming into the room." Try to focus in on the good things the child does (I know sometimes this can be hard) and then maybe he/she will respond to it. This student did, but I had another student a few years later who did not. She preferred the negative attention.

Yiming from NYC, NY:
I have a kid that does the samething in my class. I think it is important to talk with the child, however, just simply talk with the child is not enough, he might not remember, or doesn't really care. What I did was, I set up a personal contract with him. I asked him to think of 2 good things about him, and 2 things that he could improve himself. Everyday, when I see some good behaviors, I put a happy face on the personal contract paper that we set that has the 4 items. If I see a bad behavior, I take away a happy face. By the end of the week, if he gets more than 5 happy faces, I give him a little present, usually it could be some stickers, or a candy, etc. It is usually important to point out some good things about that child, so he knows what is good, if we just point out some negative behaviros about the child, he might not change only because he doesnt know what is good. I tried this with my class, it worked out pretty well, hopefully it works with you too, good luck =).

Susan Bullard from Wintersville, Ohio:
We usually learn our classroom rules during the first week of school. A really important one is "hands and feet in your own space". We act it out, recite it, remind each other of it, and practice it. The kids learn how to =tell another student to remember "hands and feet in your own space". The other helpful rule we have is "ask before you touch".This includes people and other people's belongings including those of the teacher.

Hermenia Clark from Sunflower, Mississippi:
God gave you your hands to do things with and not to make other children unhappy. Your hands are needed to help moma, daddy and the teacher. Also they are to help you pick up things with. Explain things in this manner and see if it helps.

Barbara Quaresima from GlensFalls, NY:
This might be a good time to introduce the idea of spreading germs in the classroom. We had a nurse from the Public Health Dept. come to our school and present a program on handwashing and how germs are spread among children. This helps if we need to remind children about touching inappropraiately. The PH nurse had some special "germ glitter" that he used to show the children how germs quickly spread.A blacklight was used before and after handwashing, and germs were still able to be seen. It's worth a try!

Megan Adams from Brownsburg, IN:
well I think you should let his parents know what he is doing and he mit stop.

Sonia R. from Lynwood, CA:
Have you tried incentive charts? They seem to work really well with the lower grade kids. Hope this was helpful.

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Mrs. Rodriguez from Anaheim, CA:
Keep him to the side away from other students and tell him he will start losing recess or reading time he keeps on doing that you have to show him that what he is doing is bad

Anne from Pasadena, California:
I have a "private place" in my classroom, a chair pulled up to the piano bench. I tell the children that they have a choice; if they need to talk, touch, poke and bother they need to sit in the private place where this will not bother others, if they can be quiet and touch only themselves they can sit with the group. This prevents the misbehaving student from becoming the center of attention allowing everyone to get their work done. I find that my students learn to evaluate their physical and emotional state and decide where they need to sit with little assistance from me. If you make it an emotionally neutral thing as opposed to a punishment many students will occasionally ask to work in the private place.

Beverly Bylsma from Panama City, Florida:
I have a student just like this one. I have found he has low self esteem so I have started to deal one-on-one with him and brag openly about his "great" accomplishments such as how wonderful he sits on the learning carpet (for 2 minutes) and how everyone should sit like him. He has blossomed recently and is trying hard to do better. I also use the peer pressure of potential friends as a tool to determine if he is likable this way when he acts out. Good luck.

Jennifer Howard from Nicholaville, KY:
Have you tried providing him with fidgets to keeps his hands busy? Chinese finger handcuffs are great! You can find them at Oriental Trading. Also try taping off an area around his desk (with a little extra)as his special space. He can move only in that special space. Hope that we can help.

Marlene from Mansfield, NJ:
I also teach Kindergarten. I had a student this year who sounds just like yours. This child just turned 5. I tried teaching the children hug themselves and say "keep your hands to yourself". I have a large number of english language learners. This worked for many of my students, but this child did not respond to this technique. I set up his own behavior mod, I was starting to see some success, finally this week the child's parents made the choice to say in preschool one more year. Good Luck!

Lynn Cutshaw from Clewiston, Florida:
I have had these problems in the past. I started really focusing the children's attention to the fact that we are a school family and we need to look out for one another. I also got tired of all the tattling about what others students were doing and taught my students to stand up for themselves politely but firmly. When someone does something they do not like, the child looks at them with a sturn face (some also put the hands on the hips) and tells them, "Stop, I do not like it when you do that. Please do not do it again." It usually results in an apology from the guilty party. The incidents have decreased greatly.

Mari Nelson from Waukesha, wi:
Come up with a chart or graph that keeps track of the times your student "pokes". each time your student behaves inapropriately aks them to fill out their form. Do this for six weeks and at the end of each weekl, chart the improvement. It's an amazing way to make kids aware of their issues and motivate them to improve when the see it in black and white, on paper.

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